The stabilising influence of a woman during tense situations?

[benn0]

Bit of context Sugar?
This is being asked on the internet, or a forum where there is identity attached to some degree whether just a username or whatever

Porky made a good point, but I guess it really depends on many factors, like context again haha
Na idk, are you looking for homework to be done or research?
Running off from Porky, 2 blokes going it at can have issues but what do? Law says this, society works like that? 2 girls? 2 women? x noun vs. x noun, when does someone step in, how does someone judge when to step in, people draw lines differently in the sand but people forget sand moves and can left with nothing so where does that person turn for guidance their upbringing? their beliefs?





Or is this a poll of the community?

 

[Sugar]

Bit of context Sugar?
This is being asked on the internet, or a forum where there is identity attached to some degree whether just a username or whatever

Porky made a good point, but I guess it really depends on many factors, like context again haha
Na idk, are you looking for homework to be done or research?
Running off from Porky, 2 blokes going it at can have issues but what do? Law says this, society works like that? 2 girls? 2 women? x noun vs. x noun, when does someone step in, how does someone judge when to step in, people draw lines differently in the sand but people forget sand moves and can left with nothing so where does that person turn for guidance their upbringing? their beliefs?





Or is this a poll of the community?

Hey there Benn0

Mate, from hazy memory at the tincture test time when I posted this I was thinking about a recent fight between 2 men outside my flat, one swinging a huge wrench and girl in the middle of it all trying to stop the fight. Then came into play myself trying to calm the situation and speaking in a voice that wouldn't escalate it and I was most concerned for the girl who while she wasn't the target, she could very easily have got hurt, and she did get hit by being in the middle of it all. In the end it was her that grappled the wrench away from the ex boyfriend and it was me that got the new boyfriend safely inside my flat but not until he had been hit with the wrench and he collapsed in my flat then I had the cops and ambos and injured people in my flat...And....my grow out back!

So that was what started me thinking about it and really, I was just expressing a thought and I guess I wondered what other people's experience have been. I have often seen situations where women have escalated a situation same as I have often seen men do the same but also have seen both men and women intervene or do something to draw attention away from something that was getting out of hand.

So it's just a question to ponder and think about no poll, no research really and I had over medicated at the time lol

 

[Porky]

Hey there Benn0

Mate, from hazy memory at the tincture test time when I posted this I was thinking about a recent fight between 2 men outside my flat, one swinging a huge wrench and girl in the middle of it all trying to stop the fight. Then came into play myself trying to calm the situation and speaking in a voice that wouldn't escalate it and I was most concerned for the girl who while she wasn't the target, she could very easily have got hurt, and she did get hit by being in the middle of it all. In the end it was her that grappled the wrench away from the ex boyfriend and it was me that got the new boyfriend safely inside my flat but not until he had been hit with the wrench and he collapsed in my flat then I had the cops and ambos and injured people in my flat...And....my grow out back!

So that was what started me thinking about it and really, I was just expressing a thought and I guess I wondered what other people's experience have been. I have often seen situations where women have escalated a situation same as I have often seen men do the same but also have seen both men and women intervene or do something to draw attention away from something that was getting out of hand.

So it's just a question to ponder and think about no poll, no research really and I had over medicated at the time lol

Sometimes it's just better to stand back and watch sugar..

 

[Raniformis]

If you got serious with a big wrench all you'd hear is the women screaming in horror

 

[Raniformis]

I'll say this... it's highly unlikely I'd arc up on a woman so that's a definite advantage.

De-escalation is a skill that anyone can possess, ego is a mother fucker.

 

[Joe Dirte]

I think I have seen equally effective and ineffective women trying to mediate arguments, people are psychopaths, wrenches don't hurt people, people hurt people, should've blown a big joint on em Sugar

 

[benn0]

Mutually assured destruction can be hard to de-escalate

 

[Sugar]

Sometimes it's just better to stand back and watch sugar..

I know but I didn't put myself at risk unlike the girl who was in the middle of it all...she was very strong and brave and I'd have her on my team any day...I had to do something. Can not stand by and not help.

 

[Madmick]

I'm sorry , but you did end up putting yourself at great risk in the end

Maybe the moral of that story was to mind your own business

These days stepping in has led to injury or death to the good Samaritan themselves

And no these days the girls seem to be worse than the boys in this department

Especially when weekend binge drinking is involved

 

[Sugar]

I'm sorry , but you did end up putting yourself at great risk in the end

Maybe the moral of that story was to mind your own business

These days stepping in has led to injury or death to the good Samaritan themselves

And no these days the girls seem to be worse than the boys in this department

Especially when weekend binge drinking is involved

If people are fighting on my property, in my carport then it is my business.

 

[Sugar]

I'll say this... it's highly unlikely I'd arc up on a woman so that's a definite advantage.

De-escalation is a skill that anyone can possess, ego is a mother fucker.

Yes, all points I agree with.

 

[Sugar]

I think I have seen equally effective and ineffective women trying to mediate arguments, people are psychopaths, wrenches don't hurt people, people hurt people, should've blown a big joint on em Sugar

I was glad I wasn't stoned at the time it went down, that was a small miracle in itself lol

 

[Sugar]

If you got serious with a big wrench all you'd hear is the women screaming in horror

if there was a spider on it then yes lol

 

[Pedro de pacas]

Should of got ya phone out and filmed the flogs and put it up here, be good for a laugh

 

[Sugar]

Should of got ya phone out and filmed the flogs and put it up here, be good for a laugh

Well, I deleted the link to the vid I posted here but some of you saw it.

The man that collapsed in my flat and his girlfriend were ambushed by the wrench swinging ex boyfriend who was hiding in the bushes waiting for them.

He was aiming for the new boyfriend's head with the wrench as he knew that he had a cyst in his brain and the new boyfriend did not raise a fist or fight back he was trying to get away but the wrench man had a hold of him.

It would have been a very different outcome if the girlfriend and me had not stepped in.

Of course every situation needs evaluating before deciding best action and approach to take and I had been on the phone to 000 throughout the fight that went for over 20 mins.

 

[Sugar]

Hi, I'm Sugar
This will do for my introduction to TSE.
I start nonsensical threads that cause arguments and divide the community...just ask Sistermaryelephant.
Sometimes I get very spiritual and vocal and talk about God.
Other times I grow and smoke and play music.
Have a nice weekend

 

[Porky]

Hi, I'm Sugar
This will do for my introduction to TSE.
I start nonsensical threads that cause arguments and divide the community...just ask Sistermaryelephant.
Sometimes I get very spiritual and vocal and talk about God.
Other times I grow and smoke and play music.
Have a nice weekend

I prefer the times when you grow and smoke and play music.

 

[Sugar]

I prefer the times when you grow and smoke and play music.

as opposed to what?

 

[Porky]

as opposed to what?

The nonsensical and religious ones.

 

[Sugar]

The nonsensical and religious ones.

Will you stop your nonsensical and anti religious posts?